How to Aptly Express Condolences When Needed
How to Aptly Express Condolences When Needed
Those left behind experience a great deal of pain when a loved one passes away. It is especially crucial during these grieving periods for those close to them to reassure them that everything will work out in the end and that they are not alone in this world to face all of their struggles.
But it can be tough to offer condolences to a grieving loved one properly. Many people struggle to find the perfect words and are unsure what to say or do. Therefore, our staff at Flowersarch has created this article to suggest how to do so correctly.
Be Present
Being there as much as possible is one of the most crucial things you can do when a loved one is grieving. Suppose you can go down to the wake and support them emotionally and physically during this trying time. When you're with someone, don't stress what to say; just being there lets them know that you're thinking about them and that they can come to you for support or a shoulder to weep on. The first step in adequately expressing your sympathies is to do this.
Write
Grieving people might need the correct frame of mind to converse or participate in meaningless chatter. This is why putting your condolences in writing is a crucial first step. In essence, you allow the individual experiencing grief the flexibility to decide when they want to view and read your sympathy message by writing it down and delivering it to them via letter, email, or any other means. In this manner, your message is more likely to serve as a source of consolation during their difficult times rather than overwhelming them.
Include the following in your condolence message:
- Your sympathies. Instead of being cold and professional, ensure your condolences are sincere and kind. Although "My condolences" is brief, it is also impersonal. When writing condolences, be genuine and use more relatable language like "I'm going to miss them too" or "We are so sorry for your loss."
- Your gratitude for the departed. When someone is grieving, reading about how much a friend or family member valued the departed may be incredibly consoling and encouraging. Use phrases like "what an amazing person and a remarkable life lived" to keep it short and direct. I'm happy I met them," or "They improved the lives of so many others, including mine." I will always treasure the times I spent with them.
- An invitation to assist. Make sure to offer assistance in your message, mainly if you can assist with arrangements or other things like cooking, cleaning, etc. Even just lending a sympathetic ear or a shoulder to weep on is significant. Remember to follow up.
Gift Flowers
Although there is debate regarding the adage "action speaks louder than words," it is always preferable to provide both whenever feasible. Please offer condolence flowers with your written note of condolence. In Singaporean culture, condolence flowers and flower stalls hold great significance, frequently reflecting the extent of a departed person's love when they were alive and providing solace to those grieving at the wake where the flowers would be displayed. As long as the right flowers are utilized, table flower arrangements can also be sent over.
After the wake, you should also give your loved ones flowers to let them know that even if the ceremonies and rituals are gone, your offer of support and company is still available, and their loss is still remembered.
Express Your Sincere Condolences to Flowersarch
Condolence flowers and flower stands can be delivered the same day from Flowersarch, an online florist in Singapore.
With Flowersarch, you can send your deepest sympathies to your loved ones. Please don't hesitate to contact us if you need further information.